What is love?
This post is a work in progress - edited and crossposted from “elsewhere”…
I don’t believe that love is a feeling. It is not cupids arrow hitting your heart. It is not something that happens to you, it is not something you are owed. And you will never run out!
To love a person is to prioritize them.To love a person is to nurture their body, mind and soul.To love a person is to give them what they need, not what they want.To love a person is to set them free, and hope that the freedom will inspire them to love you back.
No, not really. I have talked with people who would define me as poly - but I don’t myself.
I have a clear and well-defined primary relationship - and I do not think anything would ever be able to change that (unless we break it ourselves).
Freedom is above all my most important value… I will write a post about that in the future.